Detachment

In the first place, if you want to judge something you need, at least, to get informed about that topic. It is too easy to comfort yourself surrounded by your own ignorance. Why don’t question things, push over the limit? Too scary?But once recognizing your own ignorance, it is possible to see that you shouldn’t be judging nothing. To do this, it is needed to associate that thing with your own concept of good and bad. But everything is relative. We can’t even define ourselves, we are always changing. We are an inconstant and mutant being. Imagine define someone else’s behavior? We don't know the history, secrets or reasons behind that behavior. To then associate their choices with our own relatives and tendencious concepts of right and wrong.Secondly, I would like to say that I don’t give a damn for what you think about me. But unfortunately you can see that I care, just for the simple fact of spending my time writing about this to justify my self, requiring from this oppressive society my utopian right to do whatever I want without being judged. Probably people will just stop to judge when each one of us stop to care about being judged. Until then, the most of us would still keep inside these little inquisitors, wearing those funny wigs, just waiting the right moment to jump out and appoint the finger to each other.If I really didn’t care about what you think about me, I would have just heard what you had to say to me and smiled back peacefully. 

Erik Schnabel